Because Love Doesn't Have to be Hard
Are you ready to reignite the flames and achieve a deeper, stronger, renewed and purposeful relationship?
Marriage is the most beautiful and challenging experience you will have in your life. As humans we are constantly evolving as do our relationships. It's important that we check in with ourselves and our partner regularly to ensure that we are communicating effectively and together. When we make the choice to be with someone forever, we take on all aspects of life whilst sharing those ups and downs with our spouse. Our courses include checklist, action plans, self-reflections or questions to help you put our lessons into practice.
Our Story
Relationship Coaches
Hey there and welcome to 'A Mello Kind of Love'. We are Jamel & Aisha Mello and after almost 25 years of togetherness, we've come to the conclusion that 'Love Doesn't Have to Be Hard'. That's what this website is all about! Providing you with inspirations, tools and resources so that you can recognize the full potential of the love within your relationship.
It feels like just yesterday that we fell in love but this year, we are humbled to celebrate 20 years of marriage. Just like any relationship we have our ups and downs but we are clearly aware of the work it takes to keep our relationship strong, communicative & united. Raising our three beautiful boys is full of it's own challenges so it's even more important to check in frequently with your spouse.
Our Digital Courses
Our products are designed to encourage you to take a deeper look at not just your relationship but yourself. Our workbooks are filled with exercises, action guides and resources that help you gain a better perspective of your strengths & weaknesses so you and your partner can be more accountable in your marriage.
When you complete our courses, you will have a clearer vision of who you are, what you need from your spouse and how to get it. This enlightenment will allow you to create more time for the things that matter to you and your relationship.
Here Are Some of the Topics We'll be Covering in Our Courses & Workshops
Forgiveness
Forgiveness is an essential aspect of maintaining a healthy and strong marriage. In any long-term relationship, conflicts and disagreements are bound to happen. However, how couples handle these conflicts is what sets successful marriages apart from failing ones. Marriage is a partnership that requires constant effort, compromise, and understanding. Forgiveness plays a crucial role in promoting these qualities and ensuring a harmonious and fulfilling relationship.
Communication
Open and honest communication allows partners to express their needs, desires, and concerns in a healthy and respectful manner. It involves active listening, expressing empathy, and being open to understanding the perspective of your spouse. When both partners feel heard and understood, it creates a safe and nurturing environment where support and love can thrive.
Intimacy
Intimacy is crucial for a successful and fulfilling marriage. It goes beyond physical connection and encompasses emotional and psychological aspects as well. Building and maintaining intimacy requires effort and communication from both partners. It enhances trust, strengthens the bond, and improves overall relationship satisfaction.
Finances
Fostering open and honest conversations about finances is key to a healthy marriage. Couples should discuss their individual financial goals, spending habits, and any outstanding debts. This transparency allows for a better understanding of each other's financial situations and helps in setting joint goals.
Family
Family time is essential for a healthy and balanced marriage. It allows couples to connect on a deeper level, create cherished memories, and foster a strong bond with their children. Spending quality time together enables couples to step away from the stresses of daily life and focus on cultivating their relationship, enhancing communication, and reinforcing their commitment to one another.
Resolving Conflict
One of the key reasons why resolving conflict is important in a marriage is because it allows both partners to feel heard and validated. When conflicts are left unresolved, they can create tension and resentment, which can gradually erode the foundation of a relationship. By addressing conflicts in a constructive manner, couples can work towards finding common ground and compromising on issues.
Infidelity
Recovering from infidelity in a marriage is a challenging and emotional process. When one partner cheats, it shatters the trust and can lead to a myriad of negative emotions such as anger, betrayal, and sadness. However, it is possible to rebuild the relationship and move forward if both partners are committed to healing and are willing to put in the necessary effort.
Loving Yourself
Loving yourself is essential in any successful marriage. It may seem counterintuitive, as marriage is often associated with giving love and care to your partner. However, neglecting self-love can lead to unnecessary strains and conflicts within the relationship.
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